Story: Hailey came to me heavy of heart this day. she knew she had metaphorically hobbled herself in regards to allowing herself to be sucked into a relationship with someone who did not support her. she was warned ( and spanked) many times for this in the past. she had also been trying, not hard enough mind you, but i digress. you see as a disciplinarian it is my job to see improvements and make the discipline reflect the overall behaviors. even with this being 'hailey's hardest', i showed her that layers can be applied to discipline as well. i use my stern paddle-strap as one of the more severe layers, my hand as but another and rubbing as the reward for trying. discipline is not about pure sadism. it is about trust and fairness as any true disciplinarian will tell you. did hailey leave that day with a feeling she was punished? yes, without a doubt. did she feel like she wanted to improve for me as well as herself? once again definitely. most importantly, did she leave knowing she had a disciplinarian she could count on? did she (as always) trust in the fairness in regards to her consequences? the face that she is due back on the 28th answers that question as well. her beautiful bottom and movie star looks, are the cherry on top of this beautiful spanking.